changes

August 22, 2009

Change affects us all and many paths can be taken to achieve this. "Change is never easy but always worthwhile." This statement holds true to an extent. Firstly, change is caused by many stimuli, whether it is a self change, or change caused by a different factor. In addition, the process of change can be either an easy process, or a difficult process. As mentioned earlier, change can take many paths. So, depending on the situation, the degree of difficulty varies. Finally, change is worthwhile, to an extent. Although most change works out in the end due to adaptation to the new environment, sometimes change does not totally work out in the end.



The word GOODBYE

August 7, 2009

Days, months, years or even decades,goodbye has always been a sad word, but it’s our way to get out of pretenses too. Rather hear it than be hurt with lies, atleast there was love, before the pain and that’s more important. And the fact is that we learn something about in our past and we should keep it in our mind so that next time we will know what are the things that we need to do. Though, pain and sadness is always there but atleast through that unavoidable feelings we became more open and strong to accept the truth.

Are we responsible for the heartbreak of others?

August 6, 2009

The answer is YES. We are responsible at times for the heart break of others. We are given a choice. A choice to break someone’s heart or to make someone happy. Of course, you must be selfish at times. You cannot make the world happy. But you cannot break everyone’s heart. There are people who will hurt you and you should know it is going to happen. But never give up on life. Never give up on love. Because, no matter how much your heart breaks, you must keep on with life and love and never give up on the one’s who give there all to you. Because in the end, they are all that you have. Heart broken or not heart broken, love is always around to be given. And no matter how much your heart breaks, love is to be held in close range. We are all responsible for breaking someone’s heart our entire lives. But, we do get our heart’s broken, as well.

Lesson in Life

August 1, 2009

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. 

If someone hurts you, betrays you , or breaks you heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either.

You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.