How to Let Go of Someone Who You Deeply Loved

September 30, 2009

1. Realize that you still love this person. If it feels as if you can’t let go, it’s for a reason. If they lie to you, realize that it’s not a healthy relationship. Forgetting this person may be very hard to nearly impossible, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t move on in life.

2. Understand that there are other people out there, you just can’t see them. You obviously have been in love with this person so much or so long that it has gotten you to the point where there’s no other person in the world but them. Moving on is the hardest part and it can take a long time, but go out with friends and have a good time, because life is too short to live it down in the dumps.

3. Realize you may have loved that person more than they loved you. This one may be hard because most chances are that the person doesn’t know how deeply in love you are (or were) with them. Pretend you are in their position and consder how they (may) feel… this should affect you because you would know what they’re feeling about you.

4. Talk to someone who has been through the same situation. It’s always good to get out your feelings with someone comfortably. Talk to someone close to you or if you have to, go see a therapist. Venting your emotions and thoughts with someone can be a natural healer and can help the ‘letting go’ process move along. Know that you don’t always have to cry it out. (Even though sometimes you have to).

5. Decide if you want to remain friends. If you are staying with them in the hopes that they may love you again, then DON`T. This could restrict you in life and cause you even more pain. Listen to your own heart. put it to your mind that the person who break your heart is not deserving for your love and you should be thankful because its just only mean that there will be a better man/woman than him/her that will come into your life..cheer up! smile! and be positive!

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To love is to suffer?

September 23, 2009

To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you’re getting this down.

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Everytime I look at the Stars

September 21, 2009

I gazed in your eyes,
Such a beautiful blue;
My heart whispered to me,
And that’s right when I knew;
The waves had ceased crashing,
On the sand at our feet;
Time had stopped passing,
My search was complete;
I finally discovered,
What I’d known all along;
A mystery uncovered,
That just couldn’t be wrong;
It wasn’t our first kiss,
Nor’ the day that we met;
But I realized something,
I will never forget;
With the stars shining brightly,
From high up above;
I’d one word to describe it,
That word, is love.
I knew then these feelings,
For my sweetheart were true;
The man of my dreams,
And my soulmate, is you.
I think of it every time,
That I look at the stars;
This memory is mine,
But that moment was
OURS.

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A text message from my friend

September 19, 2009

My friend sent me this text message..

“The girl said to his boyfriend:

You know how much I love you. But, I won’t deny the fact that you love someone else in your life right now. I always want you to be happy and if she is the one who can truly make you smile. So, be with her. I`m willing to sacrifice…

 
The girl left crying….

The guy rushed after the girl, held her hand, kissed her romantically, and hugged her very tight..

And you what he said?! “Thank you” :’ “

Ouch!!…just wanna share this…..:(

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A Walk in the Clouds

September 17, 2009

It felt like heaven being in your arms,
Walking on the beach with you,
I couldn’t hide the sparkle in my eyes,
I wish our time could last,
With you I had a blast,
A mere memory I don’t want to fade,
In your arms, I had it made,
On the beach at night,
Everything felt so right,
I loved having you there with me,
Walking in the clouds of destiny.

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Thanks for crossing

September 15, 2009

I’ve been in this world for many years not knowing if I’ll still be here for the next days to come. So, before my life ends, at least you hire me saying "Thanks for crossing my way! :D

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To let go

September 12, 2009

To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can’t do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off, it’s the realization I can’t control another.
To let go is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another, it’s to make the most of myself.
To let go is not to care for, but to care about.
To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their destinies.
To let go is not to be protective, it’s to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny, but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.
To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody, but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more and
To let go and to let God, is to find peace. emoticon


Assignment in Literature

September 10, 2009

Story : Wedding Dance by :Amador T. Daguio

 

 

Ibutang ni  sa 1 whole (individaul)

 

 

  1. Characterized awiyao and lumnay. Describe their strengths and weakness
  2. Find out if the setting helped establish the mood or atmosphere for the story. Is the author’s description vivid?
  3. Discuss the significance of the “wedding dance”.
  4. Identify the conflict of the story
  5. Find out the belief of the people in the story is similar to or different from that of other ethic communities in our country.
  6. Describe the theme of the story. Explain.

 

Sa by group (3 persons in 1 group)

 

Mag research og 5 tribe kung gi-unsa nila pag show/practice ang ilahang courtship and marriage.

Everything was out of the blue

September 8, 2009

He broke up with me 3 months ago with no real, legitimate reason. Everything was out of the blue. So unexpected. I don’t understand. It is like a switch gone off in his head and he turned into a completely different person. I thought he was one of the decent guys but, I was obviously wrong. How can a person be so mean and forget that another person has actual feelings? Girls aren’t robots, you know. I’m so angry with him in the past ( tong una.. tong wala pako naka realize…)but now I already forgive him cause its so hard to move on if you still feel angry on the person who broke your heart its not easy to do..yes! Its true!! But we must do and accept it. Anyways, its for our self.. But there are times that I missed him and if its happen I think another things to put it on my mind so that I can avoid thinking on him..

 

Lately, I try holding my head up high and putting that smile on my face around everyone and other times I just break down and start crying hysterically. It’s an emotional roller coaster and I know everything will get better and I’ll get over everything but I wish the end of this would come quickly already. I can’t waste my time caring about him and thinking about how he’s gone and feel sorry for myself. But Im hoping that someday we will be okey and im happy for him right now and I should also thank him for all the things that he had been given to me..the ♥ and care..im not a perfect person and all of us committed mistakes. I’m gonna try to be happy starting right now and try to forget about my past with him. I can do this!!. I know I can!!!! Though it’ll be hard but I know God will help me and everything will turn out okay.